the whole day, i was just nervous. we kept disturbing each other, making funny sounds and scaring the shit out of each other and then laugh over it… but in actual fact we were all scared!!! we were to stay at home after 8pm. stay in our rooms, awaiting for gran’s arrival with the two hell guards. (well, this is buddhism / taoism. so… don’t critisize.) we prepared her favourite food – rojak, asam pedas, kacang ketek??, yong tau fu, popiah, soup, coffee, coke, yakult. and we sprinkled flour around the borders of the dining table. even some at the door, and at the foot of our staircase. then we all locked ourselves in our rooms, picnicing and talkin cok. my dad was horrible. he kept making funny noises – i thought he was talkin to my grandma. so time passed by.. we got tired and.. well, of course, we fell asleep.
it was so disappointing!! NO SIGHTINGS! she definitely kept to her word… she said she will not appear in front of us cos she knows we are just a handful of cowards. lol… but before i fell asleep i thought i heard her voice calling my name. but then again why would she, when my dad was still awake? mm. perhaps it’s my dad, or perhaps it was my illusion. then at around midnite, my dad said the light outside was off. no one in my family ever bothers turning off the light except for me and my grandma. so… mmm no idea. but this morning it was on. so perhaps my dd was pulling our legs – as usual.
this morning, mum went to check out the flour. no difference, no footprints – which meant two things: she either did not come home, or she floated. i prefer the latter. so we were disappointed until we saw that the rojak sticks were seperated. we placed them together. so that’s hint number one – but it is not something that gives us a positive definite confirmation that she came. then there was the rice bucket. it was filled to the brim and smoothen out. there was an imprint at the side. so that was another clue. well.. actually… we don’t know for real what actually happened…
i really miss her!! HOW!!!!! yesterday i was rubbing zum bak on my knee… due to a fall into the stupid drain during the funeral. it was the funniest thing one could ever see in a funeral… well… if she was here, she would hav ehelped me rub!!! if i was sick she will look after me. she physically cares for me more than my mum and dad. oh well… we have to learn to grow up one day.. and we all have to leave the 3rd dimension one day.
btw, her ashes look beautifully white.